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2015年11月4日

Fashion 假s- Hiding Acne

你们中的一些人可能已经知道-我最近看了Essena Oniell之后就受到启发’对她的病毒性崩溃“Fake”社交媒体生活。 (观看后,我立即在网上发布了几则帖子)。您可以阅读更多内容,并在其新站点上观看有关她为何退出社交媒体的视频。 没有记录的喜欢或关注者 她在那里发起了一项新的运动 成为游戏的改变者。 此运动的粉丝的热门标签是:

#SOCIALMEDIAISNOTREAL

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而埃塞纳’有500,000位追随者似乎在关注她的一举一动,并继续支持她开展这项新事业,但我仍在努力工作,以谋求博客为生。 #GottaMakeThatLiving

我将完全放弃社交媒体,而是策划内容并发布我自己的每月揭晓版,以纪念这一概念。自从我开始,我将这个博客系列称为#FashionFakes’将会揭露创建一个 “effortless”  为社交媒体拍摄。

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我看了Essena上所有最近的视频’一眼就被她提出的许多问题所震惊“对她的妹妹大吼大叫”而这些修饰过的照片之外的卑鄙的自我形象。这两个因素引起了我的共鸣(可能是拍摄我大部分照片的男友),因为我几次发现自己都在同一条船上。

在我的Insta Feed中,生活似乎光彩照人。我要抱怨什么?

当然,拥有一个 男朋友摄影师…在很多方面,它都是完美的。但是当退缩包括数小时的高压力互动,男友发疯和流泪的博主时,谁能称得上完美呢?还是梦幻?

事实是,我男朋友可以’怪。完全没有当我成为感性的婴儿时,我将一切归功于我’我一天的头发不好或者我们的衣服不好’重新拍摄让我看起来不好。还是天堂禁止,何塞在光线不好的地方给我照相。尽管我有成为专业模特和女演员的历史,但我只是人类。它’站在镜头前,让某人捕捉那一刻的身影是一件容易受到伤害的事情。如果你’完全是一个梦想家,您可能会在柔和的光线下看到自己和整个世界。相信我,相机并不总是提供这样的功能。

其次,我发现即使在我们假想的假期或周末休假的时候,我也仍然要工作。我的工作无止境。社交媒体无法入睡,那我该怎么办?

当我发现自己告诉女儿埃拉(Ella)摆脱困境时,这是最糟糕的情况。我试着平衡一下,然后经常和她合影,然后再拍下自己的照片。老实说,除非有’迫在眉睫的最后期限,我不知道’t shoot when she’和我一起回家。但是,当这种情况发生时,当我看到她的小脸从框架中脱出时,我不知道我到底是什么妈的’我在做。真的值得吗?

那么,我们如何解决这个问题?作为博主,我们如何找到平衡?

对我来说,因为我有一个女儿,所以从一开始就很棘手。我必须比年轻的单身同事更快地站起来,否则Ella付出了代价。那么你’知道我有一些主要规则会让我放心。当然也有例外,所以请不要’认为这是黑白的。整个过程的重点是通往平衡的旅程。不完美。 --

规则1-安排我的博客时间

这非常有用。我还有另一份日常工作,摄影,我很烦琐。我在整个工作周内为每个客户设定了截止日期和提醒,以便我可以轻松地工作并防止工作从裂缝中溜走。因此,从一开始就必须计划博客时间。

规则2-取笑

说真的这是我的男友荷西(Jose)主要执行的规则。他要求我在射击时玩得开心,否则他威胁要停下来,哈哈。这意味着我有责任找到我的禅宗并理清思路。听起来很俗气,但是’非常重要。否则,我会急躁而脾气暴躁。如果我不这样做’t FEEL good, I won’在照片中投入大量精力,然后整个战斗过程就以眼泪落下帷幕。

我还应该指出,尊重这一思维空间使我能够将所有事情都放在透视图中。这是我的工作。我的工作是使这些衣服看起来漂亮。每个人都为最终目标而努力工作,这恰好是我的。如果需要100张照片才能拍摄一张照片,那’好的,只要我不知道’不要把我的自我价值 ….

规则3-在家庭时间关闭我的电话 

这对我来说很重要,因为我的工作无休止。可能会上瘾。相信我’已阅读有关人脑的实际科学文章和统计数据以及我们对在线反馈的依赖。当手机不在手边时,我们的手开始为手机发痒。我们的大脑正在等待大量新信息和积极反馈。

因此,我没有将这种沉迷感渗透到我的现实生活中,而是放下手机吃饭,散步和享受美好时光。或者,如果我们在一起开车,我们要求每个人都下手机,以便我们聊天。否则上帝禁止我们一起无聊。 --

那么,为什么要继续写博客呢?是否有所有这些缺点?

事实是,优点很明显,哈哈。写博客和创建激发灵感的内容的乐趣不言而喻。这个运动需要平衡创作背后的现实,但是对我来说,写博客一直比压迫有趣。即使秤在糟糕的一天倒转,大多数情况下’非常有趣和令人满足。

我喜欢时尚,也喜欢设计壁橱。现在,我主要是自己设计风格,但是’得知读者正在发现将旧衣柜组合在一起的新方法真是一件令人高兴的事。或寻找新的购物场所。甚至外出购买我最喜欢的主食之一!

时尚对我来说就像一个难题。如您所知,随着时尚的发展,这个难题有100,000件,并且每个季节都在不断变化!我在这些挑战中壮成长,觉得人是我的画布,壁橱是我的颜料。它’s art.

作为博客作者,向我提供有偿或赞助的演出时,我认为这是一个机会。我认为这是我热爱的工作,很幸运。如果我有报酬穿着我选择或认可的服装,这并不会让我觉得自己很卑鄙。特别是因为我’我自行设计样式。如果钱不错的话,可能会让人不知所措,很难说不。’站在产品背后,但我很幸运,并且感到足够自信,只发表了自己喜欢的品牌和设计的博客。

回到这一运动-社交媒体不是真实的

我们都赞扬埃塞纳(Essena)勇于呼唤社交媒体的现实,让我们窥见魅力幕后的景象。它让我想起了什么… the 60’s?当狗仔队开始在街上拍摄名人的照片而不仅仅是在工作室拍摄照片时,便上演了舞台。您的意思是,名人的头发日子不好过,在公共场合穿皱褶的衣服吗?这是革命性的,在此之前,我们没有’不太了解这个词“smoke and mirrors”。我们相信女人真的可以做到完美。

埃塞纳(Essena)删除了她的在线帐户可能被认为是一个失去的机会。埃塞纳(Essena)创建了一个内置平台,以分享她对社交媒体星空衰落的新发现。但是,我比大多数人了解更多’喜欢精疲力尽-完全可以了。我认为 她采取了最好的措施来保护自己的情感健康和理智。 这是她在社交媒体上传播病毒视频和获得金奖的最令人钦佩的组成部分。我希望她继续对自己的新事业充满信心 让’s Be Game Changers.

So, as for my own platform, Fashion 假s: I am happy to ride the coattails of this brave, teenage pioneer. Here’s my first reveal for #FASHIONFAKES so please leave your feedback and responses. And let me know what other Fashion 假s you’d喜欢我发布或透露!

Fashion 假s 01

在这里你’我会在机场的一面墙上看到我的iPhone 6拍摄的原始照片。我想我在这里和机场的另一个地方都拍了约80张照片,那里的光线并不那么讨人喜欢。

I’我为高清照片制作了粉底,因此可以消除我顽固的黑眼圈和独角兽粉刺以外的大部分瑕疵。

一旦我终于对一张图像的照明和角度感到满意,您’会发现我分离出了​​我的额头丘疹,使我的皮肤变得光滑,使我的双眼变亮,甚至还修成了一个任性的眉头!所有这些都是在应用程序Facetune中完成的。

除非我有某种奇迹般的光芒,否则几乎所有照片都是通过Facetune处理的。我不知道’t think it’令人惊艳的照片,但我认为’人们渴望获得某种东西时会觉得很烂,这很糟糕’s not real.

所以你去了。博客背后的裸露,真实的我博客作者。让我知道你的想法。即使是负面的…这是为了使对话进行下去,我将尽量不要个人化。 --

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  1. 萨里卡 说

    2016年6月13日,上午1:41

    您为照片使用什么基础?哪个相机?对于带有背景的照片,请使用Facetune或其他软件?我喜欢你的职位和服装

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    • [email protected] 说

      2016年6月16日上午12:35

      嘿!我刚刚升级到了与旧相机类似的相机-佳能Mark III。您对背景有什么意思?让我知道,我’ll try to answer 🙂

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