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精神健康, 旅行

2018年3月31日

如何出席+洛杉矶回顾

今天感觉沉重。那是什么?感觉是我们生活中不可或缺的经验和驱动力,但是我们可以’甚至一半时间都将手指放在上面。有时候,我在一两天的时间里,会带着一种从前几天开始的感觉,而在我内心的平静中-它开始绽放成更大的东西-有时是恐惧,有时是爱或关心,有时是成熟的喜悦。但是,无论是什么-由于流程的延迟和对某个思想,想法的最终陈述,或者我们’d称它-完整的“feeling”.

今天我很难过。我对很多事情感到非常悲伤,例如当我疲倦并在埃拉(Ella)抢购时-早上我忘记了醒来并以祈祷和沉默来荣耀上帝。我感到沉重,因为我’我为那些在我身边受伤的人带来痛苦和悲伤。即使生活得到’忙碌而我所能提供的只是快速思考或通过祈祷,我的家人,朋友和邻居的苦难最终沉入我的心中。处理情感或感觉的唯一方法就是让他们不时地陷入沉重的负担和印象中。

当我经常发生这种情况’我为了工作而旅行’没有时间解压缩。这就是为什么我非常珍惜停机时间并故意在家庭时间周围建立界限的原因& schedule…在最近的旅行中,我有一个很好的机会来结识我最好的朋友,并创造无可替代的生活回忆,所以我’d从不希望抛弃这些经历,而要在他们的时代都拥抱它们。

这些是我最近去洛杉矶工作的一些照片:

用VSCO处理并带有10个预设

当生活得到’但是,这里很忙,这里有几种方法可以挖掘时间和思想空间。

  1. 每天早上留出5-10分钟的时间来日记,阅读一本灵感书籍,例如圣经或鼓舞人心的经文。
  2. 问自己你怎么样’重新做并腾出空间让自己“feel” what you’re 感觉.
  3. 练习感恩。写出一份清单,列出您感到感激的事情(甚至可能是一件事),包括您的健康,所爱之人的健康,您的工作等。

These few steps can be quite helpful when you find yourself 感觉 anxious or sad without any obvious cause. I find that we can get so busy in today’现实世界中,情绪反应通常会延迟,给原本正常的情绪反应增添混乱。

您每天做什么工作以确保生活在现场?关于日常维护心理健康和平衡的任何技巧?请在下面留下您的想法和评论…

 

 

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  1. 阿曼达 说

    三月31,2018,5:39下午

    看起来您在洛杉矶度过了愉快的时光!

    xx,阿曼达
    平衡大道

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  2. 安妮特·达蒂洛(Annette Dattilo) 说

    2018年4月2日下午12:42

    这篇文章是如此相关。我的前几天就是这样。情感绝对需要时间来处理。我性格内向,所以必须“me time”处理生活。由于复活节等,我们度过了忙碌的一周…所以我计划本周重组并重新集中。与神,自然和音乐的对话似乎对我而言比任何事情都快。很棒的帖子,谢谢分享。

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  3. 泰勒·莫布里 说

    2018年4月2日,下午1:20

    我性格内向,所以我完全明白了!我需要放松一下,记得要在场。

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  4. 德博拉 说

    2018年4月2日,下午2:54

    Aww看起来您在洛杉矶度过了愉快的时光!一世’是一个性格内向的人,我真的需要变得更加善于花时间为自己做些事情,只是保持沉默,因为我’ve been 感觉 like I’我最近一直在跑步,衣衫agged。

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  5. 吴少聪 说

    2018年4月2日,下午3:28

    看起来您在La Babe玩得开心。我完全同意你的看法’即使生活变得忙碌而忙碌,重要的是要在场并放松身心。谢谢亲爱的提醒,祝您度过愉快的一周!

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  6. 斯蒂芬妮·卡利基里(Stephanie Caligiuri) 说

    2018年4月3日,下午2:09

    看来您在洛杉矶度过了愉快的时光!可以完全与此帖子相关!

    xo,Steph | UrbanBlonde.com

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  7. 丹妮丝·柯基尼斯(Denise Kokinis) 说

    2018年4月3日,晚上10:02

    绝对是一个超级相关的帖子!有时候我真的让自己的情绪得到最大的满足’总是坐下来思考一秒钟。我确实需要练习更多的时间,并学习/练习更多的自我护理。

    丹妮丝|时尚情书

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  8. 克里斯汀 说

    2018年4月6日,上午4:26

    喜欢列出您的事情清单的想法’re grateful for when 感觉 a bit down. I think sometimes we all focus the things that mean so little instead of the heavy hitters and the things that are going right. Thanks for opening up about this, doll!

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  9. 瑞秋 说

    2018年4月15日上午12:07

    谢谢你这样写’非常相关。我也是一个性格内向的人(其他评论说的是同样的话),当性格内向的人(经常)发牢骚时,我就把它误认为是沮丧,因为我想出去做事,但是我只是向丈夫哭泣,因为我没有社交能力。生活,因为我不’不知道如何与人交谈。

    雷切尔– 在手提包里地狱

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