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2017年1月22日

下雪了&关于S.A.D.的真实对话

今天的帖子有些不同,因为除了我通常的OOTD风格的帖子之外,我还将与季节性抑郁症分享我的想法和个人的挣扎。请让我知道您对这个主题的想法。祝大家星期快乐!

冬天简直是可怕的。我没有’自2009年以来,波特兰的冬天如此糟糕,当时大雪使整个城市关闭。今年我们’ve的暴风雪是其暴雪的三倍,最严重的暴风雪之一据报导使数百辆汽车驶离道路,平均延误了6个小时。这意味着最终疯狂地占领了这座城市,因为我们大多数人都不得不拥挤并保持道路通行,直到路过。如果您根本患有季节性抑郁症,那只会增加我们所带的沉重和悲伤的感觉。它’绝对是个无赖。

虽然我更喜欢发送积极的信息并分享鼓舞人心的帖子,但我还是喜欢’在适当的时候变得真实并分享奋斗是很重要的。我想分享我对S.A.D.的3种补救措施。 (季节性情感障碍)’我们发现有助于度过漫长的冬季。我希望那些患有类似疾病的人能够从中找到一些希望和安慰’re not alone.

1)日光灯

我发现日光灯有很多运气,日光灯只是模仿家中自然阳光的强光。我将小日光灯放在窗户所在的桌子上,并在工作时等整天保持打开状态。随着时间的流逝,我的头脑本质上被欺骗了,以为它是’窗外阳光灿烂的日子,所以当我结束一天的生活时,’我很惊讶地意识到’下午5点之前外面很黑。这实际上使我的心情一天比一天好,尤其是在冬天初夏我们失去了白天的时候。

2)新鲜空气

这听起来可能非常简单,但是新鲜氧气,自然阳光(甚至隐藏在云层下)和走出屋子进行体育锻炼的好处。我发现当我’我感到自己绝对最糟糕,出门走路walk狗或短跑而不去健身房使我振作起来,让我醒来并抬起我的胸部。如果我可以提高心跳速度,它也会给我天然的内啡肽,使我心情舒畅,并给我带来更多能量。确实,距离街区仅5分钟路程就产生了重大变化。

3)抗抑郁药

抗抑郁药是一种有争议的疗法,我发现许多现代女性都避开了这种疗法,但是在3年前进行了一次试运行后,我抛弃了自己的疑虑之后,我现在非常喜欢临时使用。在每年冬天遭受S.A.D发作的次数越来越长的折磨之后,我终于屈服了,尝试了低剂量的治疗。冬天来了,这绝对改变了我的生活。由于即将到来的S.A.D,我现在在冬季开始时得到处方。它需要大约2周的时间才能完全发挥作用,一旦生效,我发现自己感觉很正常。有几天我仍然感到难过,但是它消除了我的加重感和烦躁感,以及我能感觉到的沉重感。它’太神奇了。我什么’我不得不接受的是,暂时使用这种药物会改变我的情绪,足以使我成为一个更好的母亲和伴侣,同时又是一个功能完善的商业女性。 #值得

我希望这些想法能激发一些希望并提醒您,有整个冬天感到沮丧的替代方法。人类是足智多谋的生物,尽管环境不友好,我们仍然可以提供很多帮助。 隧道尽头有光。

这款单色OOTD带有摇滚气息,鱼皮从绒面革OTK靴子中窥视,而皮带式人造皮革裙身则增加了90’的边缘。你可以看到我’ve以前全年都喜欢我喜欢的白色皮革moto夹克 这里, 这里 和 这里。这篇文章包括 赠品 来自包括这个品牌 随身携带包,我已经在Instagram上发布了好几次了!我向经常出差并希望易于运输,时尚行李箱的任何人推荐此系列。

尤其是这种随身携带使我到洛杉矶的短途旅行变得轻而易举,我的电话和iPod BUILT装入了实际的充电袋即可。我喜欢轻便又容易拉动,里面的储物袋让我可以整理更多物品,整洁而轻松地打包一天!

购买外观:

 

1.纽约&Co 人造皮革Moto夹克

2.永远21 眼睛印花毛衣上衣

3. ASOS PU Biker迷你裙 (类似)

4. ASOS渔网裤袜(类似)

5.佛朗哥·萨托 Kerri OKT靴子

6.酒神 麂皮单肩包

7.离开 随身携带的包

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  1. 安吉尔·马里克斯(Angelle Marix) 说

    一月24,2017在6:16上午

    你看起来好美!!喜欢那套衣服。我个人很喜欢呼吸新鲜空气,阅读振奋人心的书籍,听音乐。每个人都有自己的方式度过这些季节。

    xoxo,
    安吉尔
    http://www.dashingdarlin.com

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    • [email protected] 说

      一月24,2017在8:13下午

      这些都是非常好的疗法!我忘记了好书也可以治愈!

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  2. 姊姊的生活 说

    一月25,2017在6:17上午

    真是个宝贝!爱那些紧身衣和眼镜!

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    • [email protected] 说

      一月26,2017在8:28下午

      非常感谢!

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While we don’t ever “get it right” as parents, I’ve been pretty blessed to see Ella’s knowledge 和 love for God continue to grow over the last few years, which gives me the greatest confidence in her future being a bright one! Who’s a better influence, am I right?

Growing up, I didn’t have a mom who consistently loved 和 cared for me, so it wasn’t modeled for me in those early years. As I grew up, I was blessed to get a peak into other homes 和 spend time with other family members who modeled a healthier dynamic of parent to child for me, but because of my childhood I’ve often lacked the confidence that my instincts are on track with Ella. Now that I have three girls 和 a fourth kiddo on the way, I am relieved to see that A: Ella is doing alright so far. And B: God offers age-old wisdom in the Bible for those of seeking parenting  advice.

Be kind, gentle 和 patient. Teach 和 stand up for the truth. 

Anyhow, just taking a pause to reflect on where I’ve been 和 where we are today. It’s easy to get overwhelmed 和 retreat into reactionary mode with our kids. I know I have during this “new normal”. But slowing down, cutting back 和 taking the time to reflect on our goals can be SO healing 和 refreshing. Thankful for Luke, who lovingly shares the load so that I’m not alone in it... 

I hope you all have a great week, despite the hustle. Lots of love from one mama to another. 😉

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谁知道我最终会成为一个如此笨拙的小爸爸 谁知道我最终会成为一个如此笨拙的小爸爸, am I right, or am I right? 🙋🏽‍♀️😜 #RevolveU 

Almost 7 months along 和 Luke’s hair is growing right alongside this #BabyBump. He keeps getting “you look like Auqua Man” which I don’t quite see. What about you? 🤪  #LukeAndLavenda

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Look for smocked dresses 和/or tops for a super flexible waistline. I prefer them to be cut a-line or babydoll so that it accentuates my baby bump. This dress was a super cute date-night find that I’ll layer up with boots all Fall.

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Anyone wanna dust 2020年off their boots 和 join me Anyone wanna dust 2020年off their boots 和 join me in the new year already? #LetsGo!

Wearing last seasons TopShop dress over the #babybump but linked up some similar options for ya! Also found some majorly cute white combat boots starting at $65!!

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以12美元的价格抢购这条连衣裙,而无需尝试! Ë 以12美元的价格抢购这条连衣裙,而无需尝试! Ënded up fitting quite nice for our date night last week!

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